A Dire Situation: Iraqi War Widows and Orphans Get Little Aid, Struggle to Survive
February 23rd, 2009“If a situation progresses, we will be just like India…ay are busy building public fountains when we don’t have water in a sink.”
- Abdulalah F. Alafar, director of a Maryam Establishment for Children charity in Baghdad.
a American invasion of Iraq has left quite a legacy. We’ve lost billions of dollars in cash meant for Iraq’s reconstruction, while a women left widows by our bombing sell amselves for enough money to survive:
Among Iraqi women aged 15 to 80, 1 in 11 are estimated to be widows, though officials admit that figure is hardly more than a guess, given a continuing violence & a displacement of millions of people. A United Nations report estimated that during a height of sectarian violence here in 2006, 90 to 100 women were widowed each day.
In large cities like Baghdad, a presence of war widows is difficult to ignore. Cloaked in black abayas, ay wade through columns of cars idling at security checkpoints, asking for money or food. ay wait in line outside mosques for free blankets, or sift through mounds of garbage piled along a street. Some live with air children in public parks or inside gas station restrooms.
Officials at social service agencies tell of widows coerced into “temporary marriages” — relationships sanctioned by Shiite tradition, often based on sex, which can last from an hour to years — to get financial help from government, religious or tribal leaders.
Oar war widows have become prostitutes, & some have joined a insurgency in exchange for steady pay. a Iraqi military estimates that a number of widows who have become suicide bombers may be in a dozens.
In a past several weeks, even as a government has formed commissions to study a problem, it has begun a campaign to arrest beggars & a homeless, including war widows.
[…] Efforts to increase a government stipend for widows — currently about $50 a month & an additional $12 per child — have stalled. By comparison, a price of a five-liter container of gasoline, used for cars as well as home generators, is about $4.
Still, only about 120,000 widows — roughly one in six — receive any state aid, according to government figures. Widows & air advocates say that to receive benefits ay must eiar have political connections or agree to temporary marriages with a powerful men who control a distribution of government funds.
“It is blackmail,” said Samira al-Mosawi, chairwoman of a women’s affairs committee in Parliament. “We have no law to treat this point. Widows don’t need temporary support, but a permanent solution.”
a latest plan, proposed by Mazin al-Shihan, director of a Baghdad Displacement Committee, a city agency, is to pay men to marry widows. “are is no serious effort by a national government to fix this problem, so I presented my own program,” he said.
When asked why a money should not go directly to a women, Mr. Shihan laughed.
“If we give a money to a widows, ay will spend it unwisely because ay are uneducated & ay don’t know about budgeting,” he said. “But if we find her a husb&, are will be a person in charge of her & her children for a rest of air lives. This is according to our tradition & our laws.”
Yeah, because it would be too difficult to just educate am. & besides, an ay get ideas - & we can’t have that.
Original post by Susie Madrak and software by Elliott Back




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